Reframe Failure: How Hypnotherapy Can Turn New Year's Resolutions into Reality

How do you see failure? As something to be avoided at all costs? Something shameful to hide away from and keep secret? Do you find yourself cringing thinking back to past failures? Do you see failure as a full stop, or do you see it as a comma?

New Year’s resolutions often bring these questions to the forefront. Every year, countless people set lofty goals for themselves—to get fit, quit smoking, save money, or finally pursue that dream they’ve been putting off. Yet, research shows that 80% of New Year’s resolutions fail by February. Why does this happen, and what can we learn from it?

Failure often carries a heavy emotional weight, but what if it didn’t have to? What if you could see it as a stepping stone rather than a setback? Hypnotherapy is a powerful tool to reframe the way we perceive failure and the way we approach our goals. By addressing the subconscious beliefs that hold you back, hypnotherapy can help you let go of the fear of failure and embrace resilience.

Did you know that the most successful people in the world have failed? Spectacularly and multiple times! Edison is famous for saying, “I didn’t fail a thousand times. The lightbulb is an invention with a thousand steps.” Sir James Dyson had 5,126 failed prototypes for the bagless vacuum over the course of 15 years. That’s some perseverance!

Michael Jordan was kicked off his high school basketball team and has said, “I have missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions, I have been entrusted to take the game-winning shot, and I missed. I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

J.K. Rowling had Harry Potter turned down 12 times. Oprah Winfrey was sacked as a news reporter for being “too emotionally involved.” Vera Wang tried to make it onto the 1986 Olympic figure-skating team and failed.

What these stories show is that failure is not the end—it’s part of the process. These individuals didn’t let failure define them. Instead, they learned from it, adjusted their approach, and kept moving forward. But for many of us, the emotional baggage tied to failure can feel overwhelming, making it hard to bounce back. This is where hypnotherapy comes in.

Hypnotherapy helps rewire your subconscious mind, transforming the limiting beliefs and self-doubt that sabotage your efforts. Through guided relaxation and positive suggestion, hypnotherapy can help you:

  • Reframe failure as a learning opportunity.
  • Build confidence and resilience.
  • Stay motivated and focused on your goals.
  • Release past disappointments and fears.

As we step into a new year, ask yourself: isn’t it time to reframe failure in your mind? Instead of seeing it as a full stop, see it as a comma—a brief pause before continuing your journey. Hypnotherapy can be your key to breaking free from the cycle of failed resolutions and finally achieving the success you deserve.

This year, don’t let fear of failure hold you back. Let hypnotherapy help you unlock your potential and turn your resolutions into reality.

Common Therapies

I’m often asked what can hypnotherapy be used to treat and it’s such a difficult question to answer because the answer is just about anything where the subconscious is involved. Sometimes whatever that is doesn’t have an obvious connection to the subconscious so if you’re wondering if hypnotherapy can help you, the answer is most likely yes!

I’ve given a little more detail on some of the more common things I work with, however this is not an exhaustive list by any means. Feel free to contact me to find out how hypnotherapy can help you.